To a lot of people and
maybe to me in some degree me before John came into our lives, John and people
like him were viewed as a burden, someone who could not contribute to society.
John will probably never be known for his intellect or will probably never be a
profound speaker.
But when I observe John
and how he interacts with people and them with him, I am humbled at his gift of
relationship. A few things I observe with John is that he doesn't compete with
his words or experiences when talking with people, because there is nothing he
is trying to prove to people except maybe the fact that he loves to play cars
and that he wants to be friends. It really doesn't concern him that the person
is smarter than he is or that your vocabulary is larger than his. The color of
a person’s skin, length of hair, whether or not they have tattoos or piercing
or the clothes they wear does not change how he interacts with people. He sees
everyone through the same lens and everyone as having the same potential for
friendship and a playmate.
So it saddens me when I
see people brush him aside when he attempts to make someone his friend. It
makes me sad for John, but even sadder for the other person. For getting to
know John comes with more blessings than anticipated. And it is this
unconditional love for people that John and others like him have that can teach
all of us "normal people" who have the ability to think deeply about
things a thing or two about relating to others. I often think that one of the
reasons for John being a part of our family is to show us what LOVE and
ACCEPTANCE look like.